Boston Globe soliciting interviewees

Apr. 6th, 2026 07:42 am
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Tell us: Do you have an unconventional living arrangement to bring down housing costs?
Are you a Baby Boomer leasing a room to a Gen Zer? A couple living with a friend? Part of a group that all went in on buying a house together? We want to hear from you.

https://www.bostonglobe.com/2026/04/06/business/housing-massachusetts-living-arrangement/

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Apr. 6th, 2026 05:41 am

Three sentences about 2026-04-05

Apr. 5th, 2026 10:16 pm
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I slept in very late today, which was lovely. :^ ) A sluggish day all around despite that, perhaps in part due to the gray and rainy weather. I went out shopping for a couple of essentials, but otherwise mostly just hung around the house catching up on various things. Amy made salmon and cauliflower for dinner, we watched Stranger Things S5:E3 afterwards, and now perhaps I will not stay up vastly too late tonight. :^p

Three sentences about 2026-04-04

Apr. 5th, 2026 10:08 pm
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I slept in very late, got up and maybe played a hand of Magic with Quentin in the morning -- I think maybe we've only played one recently, so it might've been today. I picked up the four Bloomburrow Commander precon decks, and he has the two Edge Of Eternities Commander precons, so we've been trying various combinations of those, most recently Peace Offering vs Counter Intelligence. That one was a bad mismatch, because Peace Offering works by giving benefits to an opponent in exchange for something good for yourself, but this is (presumably) much more effective when you have three opponents in a standard four-player Commander game, and doesn't really work at all in a one-on-one match. We sort of suspected that, so it wasn't too annoying, but I think Q would rather have gotten a more satisfying win. :^ )

That afternoon was Fashion Raid Day in pokego, featuring raid battles against eleven of the pokemon who have previously shown up in hats and other outfits during what they used to run as Fashion Week. Pokefriend Holly and I were only interested in one of them (Dragonite), which meant that there was only a 1/11 chance that any given gym would have what we were looking for; they were resetting every half hour, so we did a bunch of walking trying to get to two of them each half hour.

I made it back in time to get ready for Chaos's traditional second-night-of-Passover seder, this year on the fourth night for logistical reasons. It was very nice, and nice to see people. We got home in time to watch Stranger Things S5:E2, which meh. I stayed up too late again, and forgot to post again.

Three sentences about 2026-04-03

Apr. 5th, 2026 10:03 pm
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Very tired, forgot to post. Played some Dead Cells on BGA with DVS in the morning, we've been doing this for a while and it's fun, maybe half an hour once a week. I think I went shopping in here, and made the yellow curry meatballs from the TJ's cookbook for dinner. Quentin and Amy and I watched Stranger Things S5:E1 after dinner, and are pretty meh about the whole thing, but will surely watch it to the end to see what happens. Juniper went to a high school party type thing in the evening, I picked her and some friends up after that, it was very late, and then I stayed up even later because I am dumb.

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Apr. 5th, 2026 01:18 pm
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Scary AI prediction of 2025: We fail to solve the alignment problem.

Scary AI prediction of 2026: Alignment problem is solved: AI is aligned with Sam Altman's interests.

Recommended reading: https://medium.com/@profgalloway/the-resistance-comes-for-openai-5150e0a8223d

Opening old chests....

Apr. 4th, 2026 09:07 pm
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Well, with the kids gone I now have some space to be able to get back to projects from the 1990's. First of which was to bring up my old NeXTStations and get some very old files from the 80's for a friend.

Beaker (one of the systems) managed to come up with a little work, but it was amazing to see the last time it was used was in June of 2000. That's a lifetime ago, but it doesn't feel like that long. The system though was still running (this is back when I had three of them running together) and I was able to copy the files off the system. 10BaseT Ethernet is *slow* and while the system was state of the art in the day it's quite.... slow.... compared to what I have now.

More stuff is coming out. Old notes, old pictures, old stuff. Weird to see my 4th-6th grade report card and see when things just went off the rails in my life. Amazing to see my first resume that got me the job at IRD which finally allowed me to escape my parents' house. Strange to see pictures of me from 1984; I was so thin and dorky looking with little Michelle my date for the evening. Still remember the moment, but oi I looked like a dope :-)

Ah well, it's all there. All the memories, all the old stuff, all the old feelings and whatnot. I really have to say though that I am glad how my life has turned out so far; I avoided a number of traps that would have made my life really kind of rotten and instead found one where I was able to do things on my terms and my own way. Yes, it was kind of bumpy at times, but that's the nature of it when you go off road instead of staying on the nice paved highway.

Because in this world sometimes that highway just goes right off a cliff.....

In current news the retarded "war" is still on and our Dear Leader becomes even more unhinged every day. Gas went up in price 20 cents from yesterday to today; I think the oil markets have stopped listening to that moron and are instead bucking down for things to go weird. Need more solar panels.....

my cat

Apr. 3rd, 2026 03:18 pm
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Here's the cutie:
brown tabby being endearing

Three sentences about 2026-04-02

Apr. 3rd, 2026 10:23 am
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Disruption Week continues, with a visit to the dermatologist for an annual skin check. Everything looks generally fine, so yay. Got some work done in the afternoon, made Salmon Fiocchetti from the TJ's cookbook for dinner, and Quentin showed me Slay The Spire after dinner, a new game he got for his birthday.

hey there!

Apr. 3rd, 2026 08:53 am
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Hey, DreamWidth! It has been a while.

Good to see that there's still some people posting here? I had fallen out of the habit but I'm thinking I should post to this journal more. (Social media, ugh: Facebook is still evil, right? And Instagram is owned by Facebook, right? Twitter, I mean X, definitely very evil; Bluesky probably has the addictive qualities that Twitter used to have, and if it's trying to be "the new Twitter", it probably is geared to really short tweets, not what I'm looking for; LinkedIn is for job-hunting and such, and thus an inappropriate place to be really blunt about politics and personal things; Signal is geared towards more personal conversations. Is there anywhere else I should be???-- Well, this would be the audience that thinks that DreamWidth is the right answer!)

Anyway, a 30-second update:
* I am employed;
* Vic (my offspring) still goes by Vic;
* Vic is doing alright; employed, still in college, just learned to drive;
* I am completely dismayed by the current political situation, my rage is bottomless;
* I currently have one cat, extremely cute and sweet

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Apr. 2nd, 2026 05:39 am
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What unexpected things do you see when you look up at the night sky? Today’s image resembles an What unexpected things do you see when you look up at the night sky? Today’s image resembles an


Three sentences about 2026-04-01

Apr. 1st, 2026 10:05 pm
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Happy New Year! If you are a Fool, anyway, and I am. (Although Wikipedia claims that this idea -- that April Fools Day originated from mocking people who celebrated it as the first day of the year -- is not entirely backed up by the evidence. Ah well, perhaps only Fools believe that story.)

An ok day at work today; we're all still getting used to the new normal, and I have a pretty big backlog, which is annoyingly psychically burdensome, but is more like "ugh" levels than like "gah, total despair" levels. It's also been a weird week in other ways, with the kids' birthdays on Monday, some running around town driving Amy to a dental appointment on Tuesday, lunch with Matt today, just finding it a little hard to get into a rhythm. There's opportunities for things to get better, though, and I'm looking forward to trying to realize those.

A thing that happened in March that I forgot to mention: My uncle (my mom's sister's spouse) Tom died. :^( He'd been in and out of the hospital, and not in very good shape for a while, and was at home in hospice care for his last few days, so it wasn't sudden or shocking, but is still sad. My sister Aunt Jo is going to be in the US for a conference in the LA area at the start of April, and I'm meeting her there to have dinner with our dad, and then we're both going up to the SF area to spend some time with our aunt, a couple of days for me and a couple of weeks for her. There'll be a memorial ("celebration of life"? are those the same thing or subtly different?) at some point, not sure yet when.

Another thing that happened in March is that I've been doing more with "AI" at work; it's been a general push from the company for a while, and I am somewhat eye-rolling about it, but the rest of my immediate team (DevOps) mostly shares my views about it, and we're working together to come up with ways to use it in ways that seem safe and effective. Software Engineer (SWE) type folks are somewhat more free to just turn it loose and see what happens; we can't risk doing that in situations where it has access to our credentials that let us do things like destroy production databases, so we have to be a bit less zealously enthusiastic than those folks. One distinction I've enjoyed recently is using it at build time, when you can ask it how to do things, and help craft scripts andn stuff; vs using it at run time, like having it do things in automated pipelines. We're much more comfortable with the idea of AI-written things in pipelines (which we can review and understand) than we are with just letting it do stuff on the fly. Anyway, I know everyone hates AI in general, but it is in fact a pretty powerful tool (at least when your company is paying for high-end versions of it -- oh, and another advantage of the build-time approach is that we still have the scripts even if (when) the pricing realigns to match the actual costs), if you are in fact competent enough to handle power tools.

Three sentences about March 2026

Apr. 1st, 2026 09:56 pm
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Bliiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiip.

Well, I suppose I could try to write some things about March. What the heck happened in March?

Happy birthday to us! I turned 55, and the kids turned 17 and 14. There are good days and bad days, but they're both still pretty great. Juniper got her driver's license. Quentin has continued to play at weekend LARP events and CIT at afterschool ones, and is now signed up to CIT at the April Break week day camp. I played some pokego, but didn't walk enough, except on days where I walked 10 - 15 km and could barely move the next day, this is a kinda stupid pattern. Not much Magic, although Q and I have gotten back into it a bit recently. I continue to aspire to play more, but haven't figured out how/where/when yet.

Work has been tough. I joined Care.com in 2014, a couple of months after the company had gone public; in 2020 we were acquired by media conglomerate IAC as a private wholly-owned subsidiary; and then a few weeks ago, we were sold to private equity firm Pacific Avenue Capital Partners. The IAC years had a lot of ups and downs. The PACP weeks have so far been pretty bad, with some really rough cost-cutting measures. You hear a lot of stories about private equity firms buying companies and dismantling them, and we're all really hoping that's not what's going to happen here, and upper management assures us that it isn't, and some of the immediate changes may be hard for now but good in the long run, but, oof.

(I knew this next aphorism wasn't original to me, but I wasn't sure where it came from, but I have lately learned that it was Gavin! Thanks, Gavin.)

You know what they say in New England: March comes in like a lion, and goes out like a cold wet pissed-off lion. Pretty accurate this year anyway.

Three sentences about 2026-02-28

Apr. 1st, 2026 09:53 pm
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[* I wrote this on Feb 28th, but then I found that I'd jotted down some sketchy notes each day from Jan 1st - 14th, and decided that I should post those first, but it was too late at night, and then I failed again to start after all. Here's the post from Feb 28th. *]

Bliiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiip.

Been a while. It's been cold, with lots of snow. Today was beautiful, though, and I had a nice afternoon doing a pokego event, although walking 13+ km, when I hadn't done much walking for a while, has me pretty sore.

What else has been going on. We've continued to watch Stranger Things, up through the end of Season 4, but haven't yet started Season 5, but probably will, but we're not super enthused about it. I watched the two seasons of Hazbin Hotel, and liked it; it's a little like Steven Universe but with a colossal amount of swearing, sex, and drugs. I guess it's not actually all that much like Steven Universe, other than being an animated musical? (Is it actually "a musical"? There's a song or two each episode, and the songs are pretty great, which is a lot of what I like about it. Is Steven Universe a musical? Maybe not.) Anyway, if it sounds like the kind of thing you would like, I think it's a pretty enjoyable instance of that kind of thing.

Everyone's got a cold; Juniper had it first, and is the most over it, and then Quentin and me and Amy, in approximately that order. Perhaps we'll all be all better by the end of the week.

Probably other stuff too, but that's what happens when I don't write regularly.

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