HEY, SENIOR SYSADMIN FOLKS want a job?
Dec. 6th, 2005 12:55 pmmy company, upromise.com, is looking for a senior sysadmin. we're also looking for a dba and some other jobs.
if you're interested, shoot me your resume here and i'll forward it on to the right people.
if you're interested, shoot me your resume here and i'll forward it on to the right people.
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Date: 2005-12-06 07:09 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2005-12-06 07:13 pm (UTC)It's still the case that if the kids go to college, the total pot
(parents' income plus kids' income minus education costs) is going
to be bigger than if they don't go.
With a bigger total pot, everybody--both the parents and the kids--
ought to be living better, starting now. If there's going to be
money in the future, you don't want to wait till the future to start
spending it.
When the total pot is smaller---that's when everyone should be scrimping
and saving.
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Date: 2005-12-06 07:31 pm (UTC)Wow.
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Date: 2005-12-06 07:37 pm (UTC)them after they're no longer in school?
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Date: 2005-12-06 07:38 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2005-12-06 07:37 pm (UTC)where parents save up to support their reasonably healthy, functionally intelligent, and able-bodied children
I mean, it's the difference between "I'll buy you a hammer" and "I'll pound your nails in for you for the rest of your life."
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Date: 2005-12-06 07:43 pm (UTC)dollars to your kids. Would this make you feel richer or poorer?
Surely it must make you feel richer. You can, if you want, let your
kids keep the ten---or you can negotiate with them and say "If I do
this I want five back". That's up to you. But your family as a
whole is richer now, not poorer. That means you need to save less.
College is an offer just like that: Give us money now, and we'll
give your kids a whole bunch more money back later. You can split
the winnings with your kids any way you choose to negotiate, but the
bottom line is that you just got richer and the pressure to save
should be reduced.
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Date: 2005-12-06 08:07 pm (UTC)"Give me a dollar, and I'll give ten
dollars to your kids"
"I don't have a dollar."
"Oh. Well, sucks to be you."
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Date: 2005-12-06 08:33 pm (UTC)borrowing the dollar, not saving it.
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Date: 2005-12-07 09:44 pm (UTC)Remember that most of these parents are mortgaged up to their eyebrows and running high levels of credit card debt already. They simply don't have the wherewithal to borrow the quarter- to full-million it'll take to put the kid through. Sure, in an ideal world you're right, borrowing pays off in the long term. But in the real world such cash flow isn't always (or even very often) possible.