macbook + iphone + mobileme + google calendar + google calendar = confused rmd

so. i have a macbook and an iphone and i paid off apple with mobileme for them to stay in sync. clauclauclaudia has a google calendar. i also have a google account.

here's what i'd like to have happen:

• my macbook and iphone use mobileme to chat amongst themselves. (this part is working)[1]


• somehow, this calendar info gets displayed (presumably but not necessarily on my google calendar) in a way that clauclauclaudia can view with her google calendar. (this does not have to include any read-only calendars i display on my main calendar - just my calendar content)


• i pull clauclauclaudia's calendar into mine to view it. (I think this is fairly straightforward but i haven't checked the exact method for doing it)

now, off to lots of googling to figure out how the hell to do this.

[1] i don't know if i'll keep mobileme beyond my current membership, but i decided it was worth the discounted price i found a while back to try it for a year to see if it was, in fact, the next best thing to sliced bread.